I’ve been homeschooling for 10 years now—and honestly, saying that out loud still makes me pause. A whole decade! My oldest, who’s now 16, spent two years in public school—kindergarten and first grade. After first grade, he looked at me and said he didn’t like it. And I listened.
That moment changed everything for us. I became a homeschool mama, unsure of what I was doing, but certain that I wanted something different for my children. I’ve learned a lot since then—through trial, error, prayer, and grace. And now, from one mama to another, here are 10 real tips I’d share if you’re just starting your homeschooling journey.
1. Just Listen
I mean really listen. Even when they’re little, their voice matters. If they say they’re tired, overwhelmed, or just not into it today—listen. That doesn’t mean every day becomes a break, but it does mean honoring their needs. Sometimes, the best learning days come when you ditch the schedule and head to the library, dive into something hands-on, or just connect over a walk. When you listen, they feel seen—and that’s powerful.
2. Play Is Learning
I will shout this from the rooftops forever: PLAY IS LEARNING. Feeding baby dolls? That’s learning empathy and responsibility. Digging in the dirt? That’s sensory play and science all rolled into one. Don’t underestimate the value of imaginative play, movement, and messes. Learning goes far beyond worksheets and textbooks. It’s in the joy, the discovery, and the freedom to explore.
3. It’s Okay to Take the Day Off
Seriously, take the pressure off. You’re not failing if you hit pause. You’re a mom first, and sometimes, what your kids need most is presence, not a plan. Cook together, sort laundry by color, play board games, go outside. Let them experience life. Those are the days they’ll remember—and honestly, it’s where some of the best learning hides.
4. Reading Is Everything
Libraries are a homeschool mama’s best friend. Reading opens every door—math, history, science, empathy, imagination. I let my kids pick out anything they want, and somehow, they always end up grabbing at least a couple of educational gems all on their own. And my rule? Never interrupt a child with their face in a book. There’s no better sight.
5. Use Free Resources
You do not have to spend a fortune to homeschool well. From free museum days to online printables, local homeschool co-ops, nature centers, podcasts, YouTube videos, and, of course, your local library—there’s a wealth of knowledge out there just waiting to be used. Don’t be afraid to ask around, join Facebook groups, or search online. There’s a whole community of mamas doing this alongside you, and so many are ready to share their finds.
6. Focus on What They Love
One of the most beautiful parts of homeschooling is being able to tailor education to them. My oldest is an artist—so art is a big part of his learning. Another loves history, and one thrives in math. When you notice their passions, nurture them. Let them go deep into the things they love. That’s where true learning takes root.
7. Make Cooking Part of the Curriculum
Lunch doesn’t have to be just a break—it can be class. Let them make the sandwiches, flip the pancakes, or build their own parfaits. Sure, it might be a little messier. But they’re learning how to measure, follow steps, problem-solve, and clean up. Plus, there’s something really special about a kid who proudly serves a meal they made themselves.
8. Let God Lead the Way
I’m going to be honest—when I first started, I had no idea what I was doing. And many days, I still don’t. But when I surrendered the pressure and brought God into the center of our homeschool, everything changed. He reminded me what a gift this is. That I get to be their mama and their teacher. That prayer can cover the gaps and grace can carry us through the hard days. I couldn’t do this without Him—and I don’t have to.
9. Believe in Yourself
You are enough. You don’t need a degree, fancy curriculum, or Pinterest-perfect lesson plans. Your love, your heart, your desire to give your kids something more—that’s more than enough. You were chosen for this role, and you are capable of growing into it day by day.
10. Love First, Always
Parenting is hard. Homeschooling adds layers to that. And there will be days when you feel like quitting. But take a deep breath, step away, pray, cry if you need to—and then remember: your love is the foundation. When you lead with love, you’re already giving your children something that no school can offer—a learning environment built on connection, trust, and belonging.
From One Mama to Another…
I get giddy every time I hear a mama say she’s starting homeschooling. I remember that mix of fear and excitement like it was yesterday. Ten years ago, I pulled my baby out of a system that didn’t fit him, and brought him home to grow, learn, and be loved. And I’ve never regretted it.
So to you, dear new homeschooling mama:
You’ve got this.
You are walking into something sacred.
It won’t be perfect—but it will be beautiful.
You were made for this.
And I am cheering you on every step of the way.
With love, A fellow homeschool mama ❤️
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